How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You
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Similar Character, Complementary Needs
I Want a Lover Just Like Dear Old Me (Well, Almost)!
If you pass the first impressions test, you enter the second phase. Here your Quarry starts making judgments about you as a Potential Love Partner. His or her subconscious mind is saying, "I want someone like me. Well, almost like me." If there is to be compatibility for a lifetime, or even for a date, some similarity is necessary.

Our hearts are finely tuned instruments that seek someone who has values similar to ours, who holds beliefs similar to ours, and who looks at the world in more or less the same way we do. Similarity makes us feel good because it confirms the choices we have spent our whole lives making. We also look for people who enjoy the same activities so we can have fun together.

Similarity is indeed a launch pad for a good relationship takeoff. But we get bored with too much similarity. Besides, we need somebody to make up for our lacks. If we have no head for mathematics, who is going to balance the checkbook? If we are sloppy, who is going to pick up our socks? So we also look for complementary qualities in a long-term love partner.

But not any complementary qualities—only the ones we find interesting or that enhance our lives. Hence, we seek someone who is both similar and complementary. In Part Two, we will explore methods of planting subliminal seeds of similarity in your Quarry's heart and ways to make him or her know that, even though you two are basically alike, you are different in so many utilitarian, fun, and interesting ways.

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CHAPTER 1
What Makes People Fall in Love?

CHAPTER 2
The Physical Side of Falling in Love

CHAPTER 3
How to Make A Dynamite First Impression

CHAPTER 4
How to Ignite Love at First Sight

CHAPTER 5
Your First Approach

CHAPTER 6
First Moves That Work for Women

CHAPTER 7
Your First Body Langauge
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